No shared record
Between communities, platforms, and cities, nothing follows them.
One person. No investors. No ads. Ever.
A trust and accountability platform for the kink community.
Know who you're playing with
Someone crosses a line at a party on Saturday. By Monday they're at a new event, in a new city, with a clean slate. We're ending that.
We deserve better than guesswork
Our safety depends on the people we play with. And right now, we're relying on group chats and gut feelings.
Good people can't prove it
You've played with forty people. You communicate well, you check in, you follow through on aftercare. A new partner has no way to know any of that.
Years of trust leave no trace
The people who show up consistently, communicate well, and respect every boundary? They look exactly the same as someone who joined last week.
So we built the thing that should have existed ten years ago.
Simple by design
There's no one to browse or swipe. SceneCheck only records scenes both people confirm.
Step through three scenes in the demo and see how trust builds, or breaks.
Step 1: Connect
Scan a QR code or share a passphrase. At a party, a munch, wherever you meet. Groups of three or more can pair up in a lobby.
Step 2: Confirm together
Both people confirm the scene on their own phones before anything happens. Feedback only opens for a scene you both confirmed.
Step 3: Share honest feedback
Answer structured questions about communication, boundaries, and safety. Your partner never sees your answers.
Step 4: Watch trust grow
Every confirmed scene feeds your scene score. It shows once three different people have left feedback. It isn't a background check or a safety guarantee. Trust your own judgment, and talk to your partner.
Try it before you join
Step through three scenes in the demo and see how trust builds, or breaks.
Your privacy is structural
Anonymous by design
No real names, no stored phone numbers. A one-way hash is all that connects your account.
what you enter
+1 (555) 867-5309 HMAC-SHA256 what we storea7f3b2c9e4d18f6aEncrypted at every layer
Reports, notes, and health data are encrypted before they're stored. Even at the database level.
AES-256-GCM with key rotation
Read by a person
Every report is read by a person, not an algorithm. Confirmed violations affect scene scores and can lead to suspension.
The first objection
Sounds like a shit show popularity contest just waiting to happen.
Here's how we keep it from becoming one.
No scene, no feedback
Both people have to independently confirm an interaction before feedback opens up.
Hidden until three
Scores stay hidden until three different people have left feedback, then update in delayed, random batches, so it's hard to tell whose feedback moved them.
Nobody can search for you
Your score shows to people you pair or play with, and to members you send a link.
Every no counts
A first report counts as much as a veteran's, and a person reads every one. A no on a boundaries or safety question lowers the scene score.
If it’s anonymous, can’t people just trash someone?
“Which means people feel free to say bad shit.”
asked by a senior community member in New York
SceneCheck
There’s nowhere to write it.
the whole answer: If it’s anonymous, can’t people just trash someone?Can my partner tell what I said about them?
“Then it’s only anonymous to second readers.”
asked by a senior community member in New York
SceneCheck
Sometimes. In a two-person scene, your partner may guess.
the whole answer: Can my partner tell what I said about them?Does it work at a big party?
“I think the organizer said they’re getting 100+ a night.”
asked by someone returning to the scene, who goes to 100-person parties
SceneCheck
Pairing works by QR code, a spoken passphrase or a link.
the whole answer: Does it work at a big party?How does feedback work for a group scene?
“What if A and B were great but C fucked up the vibe?”
asked by a community member who plays in groups
SceneCheck
You answer about each person, with n/a for anyone you didn’t play with.
the whole answer: How does feedback work for a group scene?This is bigger than one person
We're onboarding early members who've been in the scene long enough to know what's missing.
One person · Free forever · No ads · No data sales · No investor pressure
