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a senior community member in New York said:
Which means people feel free to say bad shit.”

If it’s anonymous, can’t people just trash someone?

Nobody types a comment. Partners answer structured questions about communication, boundaries and safety: yes, no or n/a.

One no is diluted as more people leave feedback, and it fades with age.

Cut-out drawing: a clipboard of yes, no and n/a boxes with a pencil

See the math

One no, thirty scenes

confirmed scenes
30
positive feedback
95%
red flags
1

One red flag takes 3 points off. Across 30 scenes it’s diluted, and it fades with age.

The same no, three times in five

confirmed scenes
5
positive feedback
90%
red flags
3

Three red flags in 5 scenes make a pattern, so the score can’t go above 46.

Try your own numbers on the score worksheet

What this can’t promise

A person can still answer no when the honest answer was yes. That’s why one answer moves a score a little and a pattern moves it a lot.

People asked next

Won’t this turn into a popularity contest?

“Oh that’s interesting and sounds like a shit show popularity contest just waiting to happen.”

asked by a senior community member in New York

SceneCheck

Popularity can’t buy a score, and one grudge can’t sink one.

the whole answer: Won’t this turn into a popularity contest?

Why are there different scores?

“Why is your score only 70? Oh 88. Why are there different scores?”

asked by a senior community member in New York

SceneCheck

There’s one scene score. The other numbers show what it’s made of.

the whole answer: Why are there different scores?

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